To be read in the key of G and with apologies to the Beatles
whose hit, I Want to Hold Your Hand, was number
one on the Billboard Hot 100 chart on this date in
1964 and the Beatles' overall best-selling worldwide
There's nothing new about falling in love and being in a
romantic relationship, but if there's anything we've
learned from human resource managers over the years, it is that
employees can sometimes be very irrational when "love"
arrives at the workplace. Which reminds us of the title of
another song by another famous British rock band: "Blinded by love" released by the Rolling
Stones in 1994.
According to one 2013 survey, nearly 40 percent of employees
have dated a co-worker in the US. Which industries reportedly
have the most office romance?
1. Leisure & Hospitality
2. Information Technology
4. Health Care
5. Professional & Business Services
Office romances are tempting and sometimes they have a good
ending. But office romances, as our clients inform us from
time to time, don't all end with warm fuzzy feelings.
Valentine's Day is a perfect time of year to remind employers
to review key policies to ensure that a workplace romance does not
get in the way with business objectives both when it thrives and
when one of the parties isn't consenting to it. Here are some
policies and guidance when it comes to Love@Work.
Harassment or Respectful Workplace Policies
Case-law informs us that relationships can be complicated when
the relationship crosses the line from workplace romance to
workplace harassment. What is your best response to a
harassment complaint? Make sure your policy:
Is clear, communicated and enforced
provides a definition of "harassment" and a broad
definition of "workplace"
has a clear informal and formal complaint process
has a fair and confidential investigation process; and has
a fair and final outcome mechanism
Code of Conduct Policy
Your Code of Conduct should clearly:
say romantic relationships must not affect the work environment
require disclosure of workplace romances to human resources
when the romance is between a superior /subordinate
reference your harassment policy
Social Media and the Internet Policy
Social media is everywhere – now is as good a time as any
to review your social media and internet policies to ensure that
something like "I want to hold your hand", or "and
when I touch you I feel happy inside" does not land you before
a human rights tribunal or a courtroom. What should you do
make sure your social media or internet policies dovetail with
other applicable policies (e.g., harassment, code of conduct,
emphasize that all company
policies apply when employees use social media or the internet to
talk about co-workers or things going on at the workplace (e.g.,
harassment, code of conduct, confidentiality, etc.)
remind employees that what they say on social media can result
What does this mean?
As Frank Sinatra sang:
Love is a many splendored thing
It's the April rose that only grows in the early spring
Love is nature's way of giving a reason to be living
The golden crown that makes a man (or woman) a king
But we know that sometimes love can harm the workplace in
terms of lost productivity, complaints of harassment and the
fallout when a relationship ends. It's time to go over your
workplace policies and make sure everyone knows the rules about Love@Work.
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